Gone but still here

I have always wanted to help children. Not necessarily as a teacher or a parent but as just someone who cares about what is going on with their lives. I especially want to work the teens that are in that stage of life where they feel the world is crashing in on them.  They tend to be afraid to tell their friends and family because their worried about making them happy and not disappointing them. I want to develop a place where they can go and get these thoughts and worries off of their chests without worrying or angering the people they care about. And if they need something more that needs to be specialized, I want to point them in the right direction. Not force them to get the attention they need but give the strength to go on their own with all the pressure and fear that can come from the need for help but the uncertainty of where to go.

Besides helping teens I want everyone to understand that being happy and being sad go hand in hand. That just because something sad happens, it shouldn’t take over their life. I want to help these people, friends, family, people I don’t even know that when sad things happen; mourn, grieve, whatever outlet helps you, but don’t let it consume you. Let that sadness be the amplifier for when joy and happiness come back into their lives. There is nothing wrong with being happy and I want everyone that I meet an get to know understand that.

Most important to me that when they think of me, I want them to smile. I don’t want anyone to mourn for me to long and that I loved living. That I even if I never said what was exactly on mind and times I still made my point across. I want people to remember that it didn’t matter who anyone was to, that I would be more than happy to share a smile and a listening ear to anyone. I want to leave behind a better world than the one I came into. Whether it’s by giving a smile to someone who needs it or just a listening ear. I would be content to be a passing thought in someone’s mind on a quiet Sunday morning. That’s more than enough for me.

Though she wished to linger

A while more

She has gone and left

Leaving but memories

Her gently smile and

Warm hands

Forever giving

Silent by words

But with thunderous action

Her memory lives

They linger on as

She wished

In many hearts and minds

For a time in sorrow

But forever remembered

With Joy.

Grace Undefined

I have always had very simple plans for my future. Find a job that I at least enjoy doing if not in love with was always first in my mind. Being a Pharmacy technician has been that job so far. I enjoy the work and the people. While there are bad days the good days more than make up for it. I have always seen myself living in my parents’ house and I plan to buy it from them when the time comes. I have also seen myself having children in this house just not always having a significant other in that house. Children have always been in my future plans. I never develop concrete ideas for my future. More like vague ideas of where I want to go and what I want to take with me. I have never planned to get a job where I make thousands of dollars a week. Just keeping that everything is paid for and maybe a little extra for a yearly vacation is more than adequate. That Vacation may not be in the Bahamas every year but that is perfectly okay.

Something that would twist my plans for my future would be if I met someone who could be “the One”. Every person talks about meeting that one person who completes them, that one person that lights up their world. I can honestly say that if I did meet someone who could do all of that for me I would be the most shocked person around. I have never put thought into what my other half would even be like. To meet that person should fill me with unimagined joy as far as I can tell. But that is only from what other people have told me about when they met their other half.

I have never thought of myself who can give so much of myself to someone else intimately like I feel would be necessary for me to get married or be in a permanent relationship. I couldn't even begin to plan what my life would be with someone who would mean so much to me in it. I see sharing my life with someone on such an intimate level like winning the lottery. Some people pray for it, others are convinced that one day it will happen while others view it as something that is never going to happen. While most people say everything falls into place once that person enters your life I see that I would have to change everything in my plans to some degree. Not because I had to, but because I would want to. I would want to make that person happy as I am sure they would want me to be happy. While I can see myself making the changes I would not be sure how much of it would be changes in my plans or in me.

I have accepted

Chance and change

And pushing of myself

To my limitation

I have

Accepted that when

I am given

Opportunity

It is alright

To take it

It is not selfish

Its acceptance

Things can occur and being

Given

Unselfishly

Are worth more

Than what I take

More than

what I want for

My own

That what I

Am given

But do not deserve

I am grateful for

I am accepting of

The forces that give it to me

I am thankful

For my family

Those who I have

Chosen and those

Who have chosen me

I am greatful

Future so Bright

Being happy is probably the most important thing that I can think of in my future. Everyone always says to do what makes you happy, so that is my plan. I can’t imagine being happy without my friends and family. They are a part of me that can’t be replaced. I also can’t imagine a future where there are not at least a million books. Whether I have written them or not reading has been a lifelong passion that I see enduring through my entire life time. I also want painting to be a major part of my future. I have developed such a love and appreciation to many different forms of art and painting just heads the top of the list. I have always seen myself otherwise having a fairly simple future. Spending my rainy days inside and watching it pour with a smile. Also, cats for company. Cats are just something that has always been in my home and a home without cats just seems strange. Just one or two is enough for rainy day company.  Though I can’t see myself ever getting married, I have always seen myself being a parent. While I won’t exclude finding a significant other, I know children are a big part of my future.

I see it now

Surrounding

The rain

The sun

The colors flowing

Surrounding

Forming into

Shapeless rainbows and shades

of color yet to be seen

Voices and people

Melding into the sounds of

Rain and thunder

And words piling around me

I smile isn’t washed under

The rain flowing

From the open window

The words on the page blur

But I close my eyes

And they are still there

Swirling in the colors behind my eyelids as the

Rain patters across my cheeks

as soft as kitten fur

Seeking, wanting attention

The pattering of

Rain soon

Joins the background of the symphony

of voices and laughter

An yelling that

Surrounds me

A controlled chaos

That sounds of

Light

Of joy

The sounds of my happiness

The sound of my home

A book by its cover

I have several activities that I am passionate including painting, drawing, and music. My biggest passions however, would probably being reading and definitely writing. I can spend hours, if I am allowed to, getting lost in the pages of a book. I love to imagine some of the ideas and places that are described in those works and I am always getting lost in my own, trying to put into words what I am seeing in my own mind. I would be more than content to do nothing more than get lost in those thoughts for hours and sometimes days at a time.

I would love nothing more than to be a fiction writer. While I do know that it would not be a viable way to make a living right at this moment it is something that I am not going to stop pursuing. That it is going to be difficult at first is something that only makes me want to try harder to become a published author. Also I also think that becoming an editor would be something that I would like to do in the future. While I know as an editor I have a potential to read some pretty horrible books along with some amazing ones I think it would be an amazing learn opportunity for me as a writer to read others works. To not only critic others to do their best in their writings, but to also see the different directions their writings and possibly my writing s could go in the future.

I want to encourage budding writers and to allow writers that have been working forever to still feel that love of writing. I don’t want to be a brow beating editor that crushes all creativity in a writer just to meet a deadline. I also don’t want to e an editor that is easily pushed over and allows horrible written material to be passed off as good. I want to allow writers to reach the full potential. I want to give he readers something that leaves reading for hours because they just can’t put the book down, not only from their favorite authors but by anyone who may read my works if and when they are published. I want any reader of whatever genre they are reading to be happy with the book and the author who wrote it.

 Red smearing across white

Hands flowing blindly
Filling in the spaces

Stopping at times
Uncertainty
Then swiftly dragging across

Hands dragging through hair
Pulling slightly
Before returning to their original place

Ruffling, shuffling, shifting
Hours passing 
Yet feeling like only moments

Eyes blurring
Hands dropping at last
The little end has occurred 

Stretching while standing
Tired and sore
It's only the first chapter

Note to self, use spell check next time.

Alchemy

 The story The Alchemist is focused around the journey of Santiago the shepherd boy and his travels to find his personal legend. While it starts of with him having a recurring dream for him to leave what is familiar to him and go to the pyramids in Egypt to find a treasure. The reader follows Santiago as he travels from Spain to Africa and follows his difficulties in his pursuit of treasure and his personal legend. Along the way he is faced with physical and emotional obstacles. While he does find his treasure, it is the lessons he learns about the world, of himself and of his personal legend  that make the  the journey complete. 

 A scene that hit me was the scene were the refuges told of their reoccurring dream that would lead Santiago back to Spain to gain his treasure. It reminds me of a line from my favorite movie, Labyrinth. “Sometime the way forward is the way back.” Santiago went all the way to Egypt to find his treasure to find the final clue sends him back to Spain to physically receive it. While some people would consider this a wild goose chase this is also a lesson much more important than the actual treasure. He learned that if he hadn’t gone to Egypt he never would have thought to dig up the treasure in Spain, He never would have learned to read omens, he never would have met Fatima and he would have never of learned to listen when his heart speaks to him. Without this journey he never would have achieved his personal legend.

 The point that I enjoyed the most about this story that I liked was also something that I also disliked about the book. The achieving ones persona legend is important, more important than anything else. While I can understand putting goals and dreams in front of things that are less important in the long run, I felt that it reflected in the book as more being a little on the selfish side. While I can understanding wanting to push everything to the side to pursue a goal, that actual doing it with little regard to what can occur afterwards just seem to be far-fetched. And while Santiago did seem to take these thoughts into account it still seemed he was willing to lose everything for something that he dreamed about even with “confirmation” that his treasure exists.  More importantly while I can respect someone else who can go through so much and push aside so much to achieve their goals, I myself could not help but view it as a bit selfish but can understand that human nature tends to be a little selfish at times.

 I would definitely recommend this book to a friend. It can change how people view the happenings that go on in their lives. Some people are always focused on the negative things that happen in their lives and don’t think that there might be a reason as to why those things were happening. This book would definitely give people who are always wondering why things never go their way or those who are constantly thing far too seriously about every little aspect of their lives. Sometimes you have to just let what’s going to happen, happen. This book would certainly give people a new perspective of their lives.  

Back to where it began

From across the blistering sand

To find what was thought to be

Buried beneath a desert sea

To go forward, to return

Taught a lesson, alone to learn

That returning back to the start

Brings the treasure closer to heart

Hear in hand the treasure behold

Jewels, chalices and coins of gold

Buried beneath religious roots

Between where the sycamore shoots

Here where it all began

With dreams of a far off land

A trip comes full around

By a dream be bound

Back to a land of blazing sun

Another journey begun

Back to the land of desert sand

To the oasis beyond where the Pyramids stand

Not Always but Most of the Time

I do my best not to take anything for granted. That is pretty hard to do. One thing I know I have the tendency to take for granted are my sisters. This is because they seem to, in my mind; drive me crazier more than they really do. This makes me take for granted that even when I think they won’t be behind me in something or assist me when I really need them, they are there. I also tend to take for granted to be thankful that they are there when I need them. That they tend to go out of their way to be there for me. Not that I wouldn't be there for them whenever they would need me, but that they take the time out of their lives to be there for me is something that I do tend to take for granted. It is also something I work towards not taking for granted.

I am grateful for my parents. As cliche as it sounds without them I wouldn't be here. I don’t just mean that physically either. Without them I wouldn't have been able to go back to college. My first attempt was a failure as I ended up having to withdraw because of my academic performance. I also ended up having to go back home because of losing my job because of the economy. If I didn't have them I would be in a place I don’t want to really think about. While I don’t think I would be at the bottom of the barrel, I defiantly don’t think that I would be where I am now if they didn't support me the way that they do. While there are the arguments and the occasional clash of wills it is because they raised me to be strong willed and independent that I am where I am now.

I generally try to take in all the good things that surround me and ignore anything negative. I have been rethinking ignoring the negative. Not necessarily take in the negative but to pay it attention that would allow me to understand it and avoid the effects that it brings with it. Algebra if nothing else has taught me this, negatives can beget more negatives. But if you find a way to turn that negative into a positive you’ll do fine.  The only way to learn how to overcome these negative things in life is to take in what is causing them and to learn from them. Otherwise when something negatives comes around, the people who usually ignore it have to back track to get around it. By taking in some of those negative things that surround you and learn from them you really are better off.

Thank you as always

For being someone special

For being my friend

Thank you in advance

For being there at my side

Through the harsher times

You listen to me

Probably more than you should

At least I don’t whine

Never one to wait

Enduring my impatience

You still stay with me

It is not enough

But I am grateful for you

Being my sister

Not Always Put Together

Planning things has always been something I have been good at. Whether they pull through completely is another story. People have told me that I over plan everything I do, as if I can prevent every possible bad outcome. I know better though. I know that there is no way to prevent something from happening whether you take it into account or not, if it’s going to happen, it’s going to happen. Planning defiantly lowers my anxiety over things I can’t stop. However, trying to plan around a permanent form of anxiety is a little different. My father is a permanent form of anxiety for me. He goes through massive mood swings caused by a number of medications he takes for a variety of things. One minute he is happy and fine and the next he is having a fit over something. Planning anything around his moods is extremely difficult as I never know which mood he is in. The only things I can do are hope for the best and do what I can. You really can’t argue with him over him getting angry over nothing because he plays it off once he gets himself under control. Its also these moments can vary as he sulk over certain things for days and get over things in moments. I swear sometimes that the reason he has these mood swings is to see how far I can be pushed before I lose my patience and push back.

I have always disliked speaking in public. I did not enjoy the idea that I would be the center of attention in my own mind let alone in the actuality of it. Even giving an answer in class would have my face turning red and have me break out in a sweat. I usual avoid anything that would require me to speak out in a crowd. I eventually learned to tolerate it if I had to, but it was still something that makes me extremely anxious. Usually if there is another option that does not require me to be in front of people but do something that is more challenging or demanding I usually go for the second options. While people assume I’, just avoiding the problem by not facing it, they are mostly wrong. If I had no choice of if the other option was something repugnant, I would go up and say what I had to say and be done with it. Though it does cause me anxiety to speak in front of people, I usually suck it up and do it if I have to.

I have had people call Miss Brightside for quite some time, even if that can be a bit of an exaggeration. I don’t diminish anything that has happened that is bad, but I believe almost anything could be worse. Not that there are any specific examples of this, but I have known a few people who I am close with who also tend to exaggerate the problems. Of course I being the smart aleck that I am have to retort with “It could have been worse.” I really do try to see the glass as half full a great deal of the time. I don’t enjoy being depressed and it seems so exhausting to be negative.

Guess which one I am.

It was a simple question,

That’s how they all begin,

The screaming, the shouting

The you not listening.

One moment your there,

The next you’re not,

My face going red,

My neck getting hot.

You storm off somewhere,

 I sit down in a chair,

Forget what I was doing,

Right now I just don’t care.

How long was I sitting,

Didn’t notice you came back,

While putting back up my walls,

And filling in the cracks.

My patience once again tested,

No point in sitting down,

You just tell me to go do something,

As another mood swing comes around

Just Passing Through

I was never a confident person in my school work, even though I did do fairly well in school. I like most teenagers thought school was a strange cross between prison with out the law against cruel and unusual punishment and challenge zone where your will not to fall asleep was constantly tested.

Have you ever met someone who is suppose to be approachable and gives that appearance of being so, and then you feel that you have just been ridiculed before you even get a word out. That is how one of my English teachers made me feel. She just exuded confidants and this made you feel like she was approachable about any problems with any of the assignments. She would then make comments at the end of her instructions that made it seem like only an idiot wouldn't understand her directions.  This would blow any chance of me actually asking the questions concerning the assignment. Confidence. I DID NOT HAVE ANY!

I had this problem on and off through High school particularly with this English teacher. I would usually muddle my way through these assignments for her and get by with B’s and a small amount of C’s. One particular assignment was the breaking point though. We had to do a research paper on someone we had admired in our lives but didn't admire anymore. I had a question concerning this on what she meant by didn't admire anymore. Did she mean didn't admire because of a specific reason or just didn't think about anymore. Not necessarily a life or death decision but I prefer clarification as much as possible. I waited until the end of class to ask her my question. In my mind, at the time, there was nothing worse than asking a question in class to a teacher who had the possibility to embarrass you.

Well, in this case I was wrong. Not only was it not embarrassing, she didn't make it seem like I was an idiot. She was a approachable as she made herself to be and there was no indication that she thought that I was an idiot for my question. She clarified her direction that it could be for either reason and not to over analyze the why of it too much. She asked me if there was anything else which I told her no and left for the day. A week later I turned in the paper and got an A. I guess the point is that if someone appears one way that you should at least confirm it before you make the judgment. That people can appear one way at it is only an of hand appearance that is mostly in your mind.

People passing

Coming and

Going

Feet pounding and

Pounding the sidewalks

As the work

Days end

And night shift comes in

Passing and flowing around the single

Person standing

Alone in a sea of black, brown, blonde’s and reds

Dappled with the colors of outrageous hues.

Seeing everything

And nothing

 I

Watch her

Watching them

There is no attempt to leave

To move from where the crowd

Surrounds her

Her head turns this way and that

Looking but not

Seeing

Much like those surrounding her

Looking for something

To recognize

Something she needs

She finally moves

Braking the

Flow of the sea around her

She disappears from

My sight

I turn away

My ride is here.

A little Ray of Sunshine

When I was 21 I went to a self based learning program to become a pharmacy technician in the Western part of Massachusetts. I entered the program in October of 2010. When entering the program you have to go through a 5 week period where you learn to adjust to the rules and regulations of the institution and enter into your trade, in my case pharmacy tech. It pretty much was five weeks of me going through high school on acid trip without a diploma to show for it. It was mostly common sense rules that either didn’t apply to me or were things that someone wishing to cause a problem would do. And that was only the tip of the iceberg. The five week wait turned into nearly 5 months. Imagine 5 months of sitting on your hands for over 89 hours a day and that is almost more than what I did in that time.  I was supposed to enter Pharmacy tech in mid November, I didn’t enter the program until the 28^th of March.

 I was instead told to work in the cafeteria and to help other trainees in helping them get their GED’s or high school diplomas until there was space for me in the trade. I hated this because I felt I was wasting time while others were finishing their programs and leaving. Some of the other trainees there who I was supposed to be helping just wanted me to do their work for them.  I was frustrated that there was nothing I could do because there was no room for me at the time in Pharmacy Tech. I was also frustrated that I was given the okay to attend when there wasn't enough space in the program for me. They could only send me to their branches in New England none of them had a Pharmacy Tech program. I was stuck until there was room. I was reaching a point where I was ready to resign and go home with nothing.

After I finally got into the program I finished it in 5 months which was a little fast than average. Because it took so long for me to get into the program I was able to sign up for the fall semester for Holyoke community college which was a short drive from the institutes’ campus. At the time I just saw it as a way to stay longer because half the reason I came was there was to get out of my parents house for a while. Now I realize that it helped open a door to further my education.  After a few semesters in Holyoke, I transferred to Bunker Hill community college. It made me learn that maybe that delays in what you think is most important at the time can give another opportunity that you didn’t know you wanted to be more reachable.

There is a silver lining

In every dark cloud

One smiling face

Can unmake a dour crowd

Running late is a pain

Especially on a busy day

A run in with an old friend

Causes that pain to stray

Dropped your ring you said?

Down the bathroom sink

The plumber got there pretty quickly

Pretty cut don’t you think?

The bright side can be hard to find

Especially with the dark surrounding glare

Like the dark “red line” windows

And only meet your own stare

Moving forward isn't a crime,

Neither is standing still

You feel the bright side won’t find you

Trust me, it will.

Many Changes, Many Phases

I have had many experiences in my life have set me apart from people. To some people I have done more in my 24 years than some people have done in their entire life times. Ad compared to theirs I have barely done anything. To some people I have lived a charmed life with few problems. To others they don’t know how I live with some of the responsibilities that I have. All of these things have shaped who I am and whom I will be later done the road. Some of these experiences have played larger parts in who I have become than others.

My grandmother before she past

One moment that changed me was the day my grandmother died. It was late in the summer, a week before I turned 17. My mother told my sister, my cousin and I the morning we were supposed to be leaving for a marching band competition in Ohio. This was a big decision on whether or not we would go or not as my parents had already put almost three thousand dollars into all of us to and it wasn't refundable. It would also be a problem considering our band wasn't as large as the other bands competing so losing three members could have caused some problems. Our parents said it was up to us on whether or not we were going to go or not. This would really be the first “adult” decision that I, my sister or my cousin had ever faced. We decided to go in the end, pushed things to the back of our minds, and enjoyed our time away until we came home. I always thought of this as a lesson that even if we want to bury our heads in the sand and pretend the world has stopped it hasn't. That we have to pull our selves together until there is a more apt time to fall apart and still get through the days. As much we may want it to the world keeps moving forward and you can either disappoint yourself and everyone around by being left behind or following along and being a part of the world.

Another experienced that helped in my “growing up” was when I went to Chicopee, Ma for a trade program. This doesn't seem like much too some people but it was like some going away to college for the first time. While I was only going to the other side of MA It felt like a whole other planet. Here I was from a fairly sheltered life, who never went anywhere without someone she knew or went anywhere she didn't know well and fell smack dab in the middle of nowhere.  At least what felt like nowhere. No friends, no family, with a bunch of strangers who really didn't care how comfortable or uncomfortable I was.  It was a learning curve that I eventually fell into. Before this I had no self confidence as I do now and I am not afraid to say what I mean to say. I went there to become a Pharmacy Technician and though I am not currently employed I am a Pharmacy Technician. I learned that I could make it on my own without the help of anyone, if I didn't want it. More importantly I learned that when it is okay to refuse or ask for help is okay.

My "little" sister and I. She's sitting and she comes
 to my shoulder...

Another defining moment that changed me was realizing that my younger sister wasn't my “baby” or “little” sister anymore or least not in the way she used to be to me. For as long as I could remember I always had my younger sister following me around. Not always just a majority of the time. We were only two years apart so we went to the same elementary school and we were mostly around each other. She used to follow me went I went to hang out with my friends that lived on our street and I f I told her to go home she followed me any way. If I didn't let her do something with me she would go cry to our parents and they would make me hangout with her anyway. It was around when I got to high school that it got really irritating but it didn't last long. Soon after she was no longer my little shadow and not just because would end up taller than me. Nothing quite like yelling up at your “little” sister to change your perspective.  She had her own friends that she hung out with and she didn't bother me about the things she used to ask me about. I also realized that she wasn't just my sister anymore; she had a personality outside of just being my sister. I learned that we liked a lot of the same things and as Long as I didn't pull out the “I’m older” card we got along as Friends fairly well. But there are days that I wish I could have my “little” sister back for a day, if only so I don’t have to strain my neck looking up at her.

Enough is Enough

I breathe in through my nose

And out through my mouth

When did you start to annoy me?

When did the talking go south?

You complain about the colors

You complain about how long it takes

Your voice is really annoying now

With every noise that it makes

Counting to ten stopped working

 When I hit twenty-nine

Would you please stop complaining?

Now you’re complaining about one line?

I just want you to finish now

You've driven me up the wall

I need to do something else now

Or I swear I’m going to bawl

I’m taking out a new canvas

That you can’t complain about.

Because you’re not going to see it

In short; just get out!

A Power Most Strange

I discovered my power at a fairly early age. I had the power to create my own little worlds in my mind. I think every child is born with fantastical imaginations. As people grow up however, that imagination where anything is possible is slowly rationalized and some people lose that imagination all together.  As I got older my imagination just got more detailed and more elaborate. It also manifested itself in different ways. My written work and my drawings all started to take on lives of their own and become freer flowing. I have never had a problem putting details from my head to paper.  Though if I were to say what I was thinking out loud it would be a jumbled mess.  

I called this piec a winters day. Most people understood it.

Times that I find that I lack power is when I have to verbally try to explain my abstract paintings to people. I have always left people to imagine what I feel or what they see in my paintings but some people what a more concrete definition to my paintings that I can’t really provide. This usually frustrates me and leaves feeling like just storming off like a child. Trying to explain things without writing things down has never been my strong point.  I have always felt that my art can’t be explained concretely anymore you can describe the color blue to someone who has never seen it.

This was on of my unnamed piece that I couldn't really explain.

When I can’t get out of explaining my art I try to think about what was going on when I was painting it. I focus any emotions that I was feeling and anything that was going on n my life at the time I was working on it. I also try to patiently explain to the person or people that I can’t just put a concrete thought on my paintings when a lot of the time they are masses of different things that are going on in them. Sometimes they get angry that I can’t better describe my paintings and put exact thoughts to what I was painting or drawing. I just apologize and say that there really isn’t any way I can clearly explain what goes through my head sometimes when I am painting. Sometimes I am not even sure what I am putting on my canvas. That I can’t explain what I see through your eyes.

Some on thought that this had something to do with DNA. They were close just not human DNA

When I was a Limitless Child

When I was a limitless child,

the sky was my boundary.

The earth that surrounded me,

was my canvas that stretched forever.

My medium were my toys,

were brushes in my hands.

Their vivid colors, their textures,

a pallet to be envied.

Endless creations at my command,

except for the occasional whim of my playmates.

The endless array of imagination

unfolded masterpieces in my mind.

The glittering pink of princess dresses

and blue armor of their knights.

The emerald green of dragon's scales

and their burning scarlet flames

The golden sun a sliver

behind a slate grey castle

The princess and her knight

watch as first violet then black cover the sky

Our mothers call us in then,

the painting finished for now.

The brushes are put away

tomorrow is another day for a masterpiece to begin.

Grandfather, Teacher, Friend: A Man of Many Names

Dear Papa

For a thousand different reasons you probably don’t remember, most of them you do not even know about. You always had a way of making what was to me the biggest problem in the world seem smaller with doing nothing but say a few words. The conversation could have nothing to do with the problem. But the mere distraction from the problem made it seem smaller or gave me a chance to think more clearly to solve the problem. More than anything I want to thank you for being there for no reason other than to give a shoulder to lean on.

My Grandfather. He never looks at the camera.

Just by listening to me showed me that I can make a difference by just being there for someone. That I didn't have to solve everyone’s problems or give really good advice. That by just sitting and be willing to listen to their problems I can make a difference to them. That just talking about something non important or relevant to their situation can brighten their day. There was not a day since I became conscious of what a grandfather was that you didn't abide by what the term really means, someone who teaches old lessons and loves unconditionally, also to spoil grandchildren rotten which you did quite well.

Grandpa and Me, 1 year and 8 months. He still doesn't look at the camera.

You were there when I came squalling into the world. You were there for the good times, the bad times, the heartbreaks and listened to me complain. When I couldn't talk to my parents or to my friends or even my sisters I knew you would be waiting for me to show up because you just knew when I needed you. Also I’m pretty sure mom would call to give you a heads up when I left the house. Even when you had no clue what I would be going on about things, you didn't understand, you listened attentively and put in when you thought was appropriate. I have you to thank for having the ability to listen completely to a person even when I have no clue what they are going on about. If for nothing else of the thousands of things you have done for me then for giving me the understanding that just a listening ear is all some people need to have a better day, Thank you.

Lots of Love, 

Your Sama Girl

We Talked

We talked about everything,

We talked about nothing,

Even with out with our silences,

We seemed to speak of something

Laughing or Crying,

You held me through them all,

My tears and my fears,

Picking me up when I fall.

Never judging, never ignoring

Any thoughts I had told,

Every shouting match we had,

You never shouted back.

You listened, I learned

You held my hand through it all

You were always there,

Especially when my backs to the wall.

No one Knows me better,

Even if they say they due.

I don’t think anyone

Can hold a candle to you.