Monday, May 5, 2014

Gone but still here

I have always wanted to help children. Not necessarily as a teacher or a parent but as just someone who cares about what is going on with their lives. I especially want to work the teens that are in that stage of life where they feel the world is crashing in on them.  They tend to be afraid to tell their friends and family because their worried about making them happy and not disappointing them. I want to develop a place where they can go and get these thoughts and worries off of their chests without worrying or angering the people they care about. And if they need something more that needs to be specialized, I want to point them in the right direction. Not force them to get the attention they need but give the strength to go on their own with all the pressure and fear that can come from the need for help but the uncertainty of where to go.


Besides helping teens I want everyone to understand that being happy and being sad go hand in hand. That just because something sad happens, it shouldn’t take over their life. I want to help these people, friends, family, people I don’t even know that when sad things happen; mourn, grieve, whatever outlet helps you, but don’t let it consume you. Let that sadness be the amplifier for when joy and happiness come back into their lives. There is nothing wrong with being happy and I want everyone that I meet an get to know understand that.


Most important to me that when they think of me, I want them to smile. I don’t want anyone to mourn for me to long and that I loved living. That I even if I never said what was exactly on mind and times I still made my point across. I want people to remember that it didn’t matter who anyone was to, that I would be more than happy to share a smile and a listening ear to anyone. I want to leave behind a better world than the one I came into. Whether it’s by giving a smile to someone who needs it or just a listening ear. I would be content to be a passing thought in someone’s mind on a quiet Sunday morning. That’s more than enough for me.


Though she wished to linger
A while more
She has gone and left
Leaving but memories
Her gently smile and
Warm hands
Forever giving
Silent by words
But with thunderous action
Her memory lives
They linger on as
She wished
In many hearts and minds
For a time in sorrow
But forever remembered
With Joy.


1 comment:

  1. Samantha,

    Good post! This is the first time that I've heard your interest in working with teens. This is great! It seems to be a deep passion.

    Social work? Therapist? Counselor?

    There are many roads to this. Try to think of how you can start on that path. Maybe you could work at a summer camp? Maybe you can intern at a center that does art therapy. Try to start now.

    I think you'll like it and thrive in it!


    GR: 95

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